Hey guys I am back with today's topic.

Topic~Write about love

Love, its something I always talk about. In my dictionary love is not always about romance but love overall is a beautiful feeling which includes care , peace , concern , solace , motivation , healing , acceptance , trust and happiness.

We may feel that we can love our life partners , our parents , family , friends , job , money but in my opinion we can love anyone or everyone.

For example, I love my plants , my books , my phone, my guitar , laptop , soft toys , every living , non living thing can also be loved.

Its a beautiful feeling and the world lacks this alot . I sometimes wonder why the people who are adamant to spread hate are so heartless. Why are they so ruthless , so tough that nothing in this entire world can enter their red flesh and turn in into a heart. I really cant understand that how come these people dont know what its to fall in love , what is the special thing about giving a piece of yourself to someone for the entire life. What peace one can get when we actually receive love in return.

Well, I have suffered a heartbreak and in those days myy heart was not ready to love again , I knew what love was but I didnt knew how to deal with that pain we get with a heartbreak. One fine day when I met someone who wanted to love me whole heartedly was the day I realised that how important it is to have mutual feelings.

Some may believe in the concept of ek tarfa pyaar but I feel that we should not torture ourselves for the one who doesnt even care. Ek tarfa pyaar is beautiful only when we have that assurance that yes the person we love , also loves u back.

Give yourself a chance to love , to live again.

The most important thing about love which I always mention about is loving yourself.

Personnally , I feel to love someone , we should learn to love ourself first. If you dont know how to be gentle to your soul , you will really not care about anyone.

Some may say , self love is selfishness but no it is not. Its the most important aspect of our life. We all will have a partner , family , a friend or a pet to love us but one day , someday , we will be all alone and in those moments life will test us and our strength. So to tackle ourselves in those tough times we must practice self love everyday.

How to do this? This is a question we all may have .

Well, answer is pretty simple , start talking with yourself everyday. Talk about your good points & negative points . When hurt, cry it out and then console yourself. Wipe your own tears and think about your good memories.

When facing a heartbreak or any failure in career, think about your loving parents , family and friends , remember the achievements which motivated you all to come this far in life.

This is how I deal with myself , honestly practicing this has made me strong , very strong emotionally.

So these are a few things you could do with yourself.

Remember, love comes with healing and to heal we should first love.

~23rd of June 2020

Hey guys thats all for today will be back tomorrow with the next topic.

Keep loving
keep supporting
lots of love
Ashi❤