YOU SHOULDN'T DENY YOURSELF HAPPINESS. ONLY YOU CAN MAKE YOUSELF HAPPY. OTHERS CAN HELP, BUT ESSENTIALLY IT IS UP TO YOU. WE CAN'T MAKE YOU HAPPY, BUT WE CAN HELP YOU SEE THAT YOU SHOULD MAKE YOUSELF HAPPY. THAT DIDN'T MAKE MUCH SENSE, BUT YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN.