When your parents say "im glad none of my kids are gay or trans." An u just sit there like well shit youre not gonna be glad for very long.

When youve already come out and a gay scene happens in the show youre watching with your family.

When you go to church and the preachers like "lets talk about sexuality and gender changes and why it is unacceptable. "  And you have to try not to seem affected cuz ur in the closet.