Dad *Makes homophobic or transphobic joke he thought up in ten seconds*

*Everyone laughs*

Me *Makes anti-homophobia joke while coming out on Facebook mocking homophobia and showing my pride that took me twenty minutes to create*

"Don't say that homophobia's not gonna happen to you"

"Why would you blame us of being homophobic"

Me *Flashback to twenty minutes of my mom trying to convince me I'm a HET/CIS and should be proud to be HET/CIS while telling me to stop looking for attention by being queer*

Me *Flashback of the mother telling me "You are a girl your gender is not an opinion"*

Me*Flash back to parents saying I am unable to experience dysphoria because I'm not female to male I'm female to non-binary*

Me*Flash back of mother breaking down crying because I like girls and God doesn't want me to like girls*

Me*Flash back to my mom outed me to my dad without telling me for months and then just being like "I told him he knows" and not so much as an I'm sorry or even oops*

Me *Flashback to mother saying I'm being unfair to my boyfriend because I'm not CIS/HET and he isn't "Attracted to boys" Despite him not being there to confirm or deny and me being extremely open to him*

Me *Flashback of family yelling how lady gaga is a satanist because she supports LGBT rights*

Me*Flash backs of sister saying "You can't change your gender (Dead name)" and parents agreeing*

Me *Flashback of mother refusing to buy binder because I own sports bras and "you can't have dysphoria"*

Me *remembers sister has no idea that LGBT is a thing despite being old enough to start having romantic feeling*

Me *Flashback to mom calling her trans woman patient "He" intentionally to be disrespectful when she couldn't get in trouble for calling her by the wrong pronouns*

Me*Flashback of parents mocking me for wanting to watch I am Jazz and questioning how they raised me when I mention that Jazz doesn't follow our religion so she shouldn't be forced to follow it's rulings*

Me*Flashback of being mocked because I wouldn't call boys stupid with my mom and sister*

Me*Flashback of constant mocking and ridicule because I told my parents I was a feminist and supported gay marriage*

Me*Flashback of parents saying that parents of transgender children who allowed their children to transition were going to hell and making their child into a freak*

I could go on like this for another ten thousand or so words but I'm pretty sure you get the picture 

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I am not even joking when I say this sums up my week so far.maybe this is just me problem but this seems to be a thing where people are okay with homophobic jokes but not jokes mocking homophobia at least with my group of friends