Why would you want to shame your lover?

I've seen things were someone called someone a she-cow cause she was 'chubby' and the person responded with Do you want this she-cows milk,
Absolutely ducking disgusting.

End this. It really isn't right I'm like so upset over this, the point of making love is to make your lover feel proud of their body not for you to lower their self esteem.
Atleast don't say it in rl or over the Internet, ya freaks