an abusive/destructive parent

sometimes true colors don't always shine through until you are no longer under their roof. they blame you. they hit you. they still want to control you. the bank. where you drive to, and how much you drive. stalking snap maps to see where you are at all times and getting mad when you go to ghost mode. saying harsh things such as being worthless and dishonest when they know exactly why you may be dishonest with them. it's all a mess.