I made this book to write about this. This has helped me a lot. Let's begin...

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How to find people to talk to

This is easy. Let's say that you went for a party. There are a million people. You wanna mingle with them.

A person who does not know how to read people, will act like a complete dunce.

1.A person who knows how to read people will first go into the room. He finds someone he wants to talk to. The next thing he does is of utmost importance. He stands a little way away from the person he wants to talk to,  so that the person can see him. Then he looks at the man's feet.  Looking at a man's feet determines if he is friendly or not.
If the person is friendly and would like to talk to you, he/she would have one of his/her feet facing you. Even if he stands side ways, if one of his/her feet faces you, it can only mean that he/she wants to talk to you.

If a person's feet are in the attention position. This person does not want to talk to strangers.

2. Another thing that he can do is look at a person's hand, while standing in front of the person. A person who is friendly and open to all, keeps his arms open, he does not tuck his arms next to his chest. If a person keeps his arms tucked near his chest. He is most likely not wanting to talk to anyone.

All this advice works for you too. You can be the person who a person wants to talk to but won't because you kept your hands tucked away. If you keep your hands inside your pockets, it means that you are nervous. You're not nervous around people, right?

3. If you sit with a huge group and you wanna talk. You must do all of the steps above and also see if the person has his legs tucked together. This also means the same as tucking the hands away.

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Kay, guys this spot of advice actually works. I mean, it has helped me quite a lot. Just remember all the above steps can also determine how friendly you actually are. Course, you can be amazingly friendly, but just because of the way you stand or sit, they may find you a bit unnerving.

Hope this helps. Please tell me if this works,  in the comments.

Dr Ash Rogers, PhD psychology